ok, so slight change in my demands. cathy and i were watching this movie in sociology today and they were talking about husbands, and this one little girl - all she wanted in a marriage - was to be loved. so i realized that maybe my list should be toned down a bit and i should be ok if they don't actually meet everything i want. it's probably more important that they love me, than that they look ridiculously good in a skinny tie. yes? i think so anyways.